Staying at home: Day 3-5

It’s been quite a strange week. In some ways it’s been exciting, positive and adventurous and in others, it’s been draining and worrying. The coronavirus is still prevalent, with the peak predicted to hit only around June. Today we heard that Prime Minister Boris Johnson has the virus. Also, having a few family members that have tested positive or are showing symptoms makes it all that much more real.

Last night at 8pm the country came together to show support for our NHS with a nationwide applause. Our street came out in full force, with everyone standing on their doorsteps, clapping for our health system’s wonderful staff. The solidarity was very touching and actually made me rather emotional.

My main goal has been trying to keep the boys busy and happy and I won’t lie, having to stay home most of the day, entertaining the boys (with no reprieve) has had me absolutely knackered by the time the boys have gone to bed. But we are all well, happy and healthy and that’s all that matters.

Relishing our outdoor time

Lunch in the sunshine

Just like Matthew, I got so used to our new routine. With Matty at Nursery 3 full days a week and Joshua having just started with nice long naps during the day; I was loving those 1 or 2 hours to catch up on chores and errands, take time to make myself a decent lunch, and honestly just sit down and zone out a little. These last few days have been full on, with both boys needing love and attention and stimulation.

I’m able to have some quality time with Matt while Joshy naps, which is truly lovely. We focus on his nursery tasks if he wants to, or simply just play or chat. We still have our meals together as a family which is great and look forward to our one walk a day.

Here are some of the activities we’ve been up to these past few days.

1.The brothers have been playing so sweetly together. As Joshy grows and becomes interested in his big bro’s toys and games. More often than not, he will try and demolish whatever Matt has built, which can cause a bit of drama, but Matthew is learning patience and how to distract him with another toy which normally does the trick.

2.While Donal is working, he often gets two little visitors come in and sneak a little cuddle.

3. Matthew sends a picture he’s drawn of himself to his teacher every day, showing how he’s feeling. This week he said he’s felt great, silly and scary!

Both my boys are doing well. They’re happy little souls, with adventurous, wild natures. They so enjoy a tickle and a wrestle with each other. Now I know why they say second and subsequent children are tough! One of the sweetest things to witness is when we hear Josh waking from his nap… Matt is so eager to greet him with “Hello my adorable baby!” or another favourite, “Hello my sweetie angel!’ Honestly, my heart has melted a million times over at those words that are always welcomed by the sweetest smile by Joshy.

In these strange, uncertain times, I’m starting to realise a few things;